Tuesday; June 2

My parents’ wedding anniversary was June 2.  Before my mom passed away several years ago, my parents had been married for over 50 years and they provided my wife and me a positive example.  Please do not misunderstand me – they did not live in some fantasy world devoid of issues or challenges.  They had their hardships and disagreements, but one thing I always felt was that they were on the same team.  They were partners in what they did.  Whether it was discipline, household chores, church attendance – and so many other things, they worked together and just made it work.  

There are a lot of passages of Scripture that can be applied to marriages, but one that I think really fit them was something Paul wrote to the church in Thessalonica, “Therefore encourage one another and build up one another, just as you also are doing.” (I Thessalonians 5:11).  Just like my folks, this church had challenges, but they had each other’s backs.

Are you looking for keys to a successful marriage?  It should go without saying that love should be at the top of the list, but following somewhere closely behind it is teamwork.  By working together, we can build a foundation for a relationship that can create contentment and encourage prosperity.

Think About It!

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