Friday; August 7
What would happen if we did two simple things: tell the truth and take people at their word? Well, we would be happier and things would be better. So why don’t we do it? We say we want to have better lives; but are we willing to make two simple changes in acceptable behavior? While these things sound easy – and they really are – truth and trust come with a price. When we tell the truth we risk exposing our failings or confronting the failings of others. It is much easier to lie (or maybe tell a fib and color the truth) than it is to live in a truth-filled world. When we take people at their word we become vulnerable. We have to lower or defenses and risk being disappointed or duped. By being guarded (or cynical) we develop a crust that becomes difficult for people to penetrate. Sure, there are “logical” reasons for lies and distrust; but is it worth the risk? Deceit and suspicion take a toll on us and eventually alienate us from others. Would you like to hav