Wednesday; August 14
What does it take to make a good marriage? I have gotten the opportunity to do my share of weddings, but as I look back on it, very few people have asked me what it takes to make a good marriage. It is easy to focus on what colors look good together, what songs sound good in a ceremony, what biblical verses should be included and when you should cut the cake; but a successful marriage is more than a beautiful wedding. So, with this in mind, here are a few observations I have made through the years: 1. Spouses should spend more time cheerleading and less time coaching . It is tempting to try to grow a better husband or wife, but the thing that might make an even better relationship is by merely encouraging each other. When we cheer for rather than critique each other, we build a foundation that will help us transcend most of our challenges. 2. Marriage is better when each spouse gives 75% . I hadn’t really thought of this until I read a biography of George and Barba