Wednesday; June 2
Most of us will find ourselves in need of assistance at some point in our lives. We may not like it, but we will have to reach out to others. That is normal and natural. However, here is the issue – will the way we conduct ourselves make it easier or more difficult for the next person in need? Let me see if I can explain what I mean. When we seek help from others and we are thankful and gracious for what people give us, we reinforce the goodwill being shown by the people who help us. We make them feel good about what they do and “grease the chute” for others who come after us needing help. However, if we ask for help and are contrary with those who volunteer to help us, we may be putting up an impediment for others who will seek assistance in the future. If we complain about the conditions placed on the gifts that are given to us, if we fail to say “thank you” or if we keep going back for more and more and more; there is a chance that the givers will become frustrated and not h