Wednesday; February 18

When people see us walk into a room, what do they do?  Do they come up to us, shake our hand and visit with us or do they head to a back corner of the room and hope we don’t see them?  Now, that might sound a bit harsh, but we know that it is true because we tend to do that when certain people enter our space.  So, are people glad to see us or are they happier to see us leave? 

What makes our aura positive or negative?  I think that most of it has to do with the type of vibe we exude.  (I know that sounds kind of cosmic but hear me out.)  If we are the type of people who walk into a room with a smile on our face and words of encouragement on our lips, people are apt to be drawn to us.  If, on the other hand, we are cantankerous and curmudgeonly, people are apt to avoid us.  Even if they do acknowledge us, it may take hours for them to recover from our negativity.  A lot of us see ourselves as chameleons who reflect what is going on in our lives, but the people who make the biggest difference are those who are positive to others no matter what is going on inside us.  Several years ago, the Apostle Paul wrote to a church, “But even if I am being poured out as a drink offering upon the sacrifice and service of your faith, I rejoice and share my joy with you all. You too, I urge you, rejoice in the same way and share your joy with me.” (Philippians 2:17-18).

Before we head into an interaction with anyone, let’s check our countenance.  We have a choice so let’s choose to uplift the people who interact with us.

Think About It!

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