Wednesday; July 6

Last week I shared with you an observation from Jacula Prudentum – a book of wisdom from centuries ago. Well, here is another one: “One enemy is too much.” As I reflected on this observation, several things came to mind – including wondering if anyone can really be enemy-less. Very few people I know (if anyone I know) can go through life without making an enemy. Even if we don’t intentionally set out to do it, merely by our reputation or what we believe, someone is going to take issue with us. However, a quick reminder about proverbs – they are guides by which to live, not necessarily absolutes. With this in mind, maybe the real application is that we should do our best to not set out to antagonize people. The point may be less about being liked by everyone, rather we should strive to avoid being unlikable. In essence, let’s not live in such a way that it makes it easy for people to dislike us. (Do you know people who seem to be intent on making enemies? Let’s not be those types of people!)

When Jesus taught His people the way to behave, He told them, “But I say to you who hear, love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.” (Luke 6:27-28). Paul would echo this sentiment with, “If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men.” (Romans 12:18). Let’s do our best to be likeable. No that doesn’t mean we are spineless – but it does mean we don’t go out of our way to pick conflicts with the people we meet.

Think About It!

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