Wednesday; November 12
Most of us are familiar
with the adage, “once bitten, twice shy”.
This is a pretty good piece of advice that reminds us to learn from our
mistakes. Yet, the other day, I was struck
by a similar sounding gem, “once bitter, twice shy”. Just as past mistakes and misjudgments should
be a guide to better living; by realizing the impact bitterness has on us and
our relationships we can do better and feel better in the future. Bitterness and resentment aren’t “one and
done” … they are feelings that keep regenerating and provide a continual
emotional undertow. When we live with
bitterness, it doesn’t just impact one relationship it has the ability to suck
the joy and contentment out of so much of our lives.
Years ago, the Apostle Paul warned, “Let all bitterness and
wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with
all malice. Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each
other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.” (Ephesians
4:31-32). I find a couple of things in
this admonition. First, bitterness is a
choice. Sure, the temptation might come
from an outside source, but its control is internal. Second, rather than just getting rid of
bitterness, the most effective remedy is to replace it with positive
emotions. When bitterness is eradicated
and replaced with emotions like kindness and forgiveness, our lives and our
society can be better.
If we are influenced by bitterness, let’s realize the
negative impact it is having on us and let’s get rid of it. Not only will we be able to live better, but
we’ll also find life to be easier.
Think About It!