Monday; February 26

Have we ever set out to point out someone else’s mistakes? Whether because of personality or perspective there are times when it is tempting to set our sights on proving someone else is wrong. There are times when this idea might be based on a matter of fact, but there are also a lot of other times when it could be a difference of opinion. Another consideration in this is the necessity for the confrontation. While there are times when someone being in error is important, there are a lot of other times when other people’s mistakes aren’t all that important. We may feel the need to correct the record, but does it really matter?

There can be value in correcting other people; however, there just might be a difference in being accurate and being right. In other words, there is proper time, place and attitude in pointing out someone’s mistakes – and all too often, even when my facts are correct, my attitude isn’t right. When the Apostle Paul warned the early Christians about correcting people he reminded them, “Brethren, even if anyone is caught in any trespass, you who are spiritual, restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; each one looking to yourself, so that you too will not be tempted.” (Galatians 6:1). Notice that the emphasis of the warning is as about being kind and caring as much as it is about being accurate.

Let’s do what we can to help people – but let’s do it in a way that it is actually helpful. Remember, people won’t be impressed with how much you know until they know how much you really care.

Think About It!

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