Tuesday; November 14

I get frustrated driving in big city traffic. It’s not that it scares me as much as it irritates me not being able to figure out what the other person is doing. Sometimes, they speed up to get around you, other times they get just beyond you and step on the brakes. There are some people who occupy one lane of traffic no matter what is going on around them while others change lanes like they are competing in NASCAR. Now, while I don’t like traffic, there is one thing I have learned – we all need to be on the lookout for others. We can’t be so focused on doing what we have the legal right to do that it causes us to get into an accident. Not only does that risk us getting hurt or causing damage to our property, it also snarls up traffic for several minutes and that just isn’t very neighborly!

As I was thinking about this the other day, I saw a parallel in our own personal lives. Sure, must of us have the “right” to do certain things, but by being bullheaded and insisting on what is rightly ours, do we create hardships for ourselves and mess up the flow of the lives around us? By sticking to what we have every right to do, do we make it harder for everyone concerned?

Christians are urged, “Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility consider one another as more important than yourselves; do not merely look out for your own personal interests, but also for the interests of others.” (Philippians 2:3-4). Are we willing to give others a little space and latitude so that we can all live a little easier?

Think About It!

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