Wednesday; October 25

My wife, Jeane, has been an incredible asset to me throughout the years. She has been with me through a lot of ups and down and has literally been the reason I have been able to get to do what I have gotten to do with my life. Even now, after all these years, she still serves as a reminder what I can be doing. She continually reminds me to think about the people I work with and see things from their perspective. Not only that, she models it for me. In fact, it was just the other day that she babysat some children of a younger couple to allow them time to be alone with each other. She still remembers the challenges of being young parents and is willing to help them stay connected.

Who are the unsung heroes in your lives? Most of us have well-known people who we identify as role-models, but how many more are standing there close to us? Maybe it is a parent, spouse, neighbor or co-worker … but, how many folks shape our lives without even being recognized? Their gentle reminders and positive example help us develop into the best we can be. Once we become consciously aware of them, there are a couple of things we can do. First, we learn the lessons they are trying to teach us; then, we can acknowledge the influence they have had on us. We don’t have to wait for some celebration to honor them, a simple “thank you” might be all they need to keep going.

Who has helped us along our way? Do they know we noticed them?

Think About It!

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