Wednesday; October 9

Our youngest child turned thirty last week so I really don’t remember much about the thought-process of our having children.  I know that Jeane and I discussed it and, since we have two children, we must have thought it was a good idea, but beyond that I don’t recall the essence of the discussion.  Now, the reason for this reflection is a passage of Scripture that I came across the other day, “Let not many of you become teachers, my brethren, knowing that as such we will incur a stricter judgment.” (James 3:1).  You might be wondering what this verse (about teachers) has to do with parenting – and I would have agreed with you until a few days ago – but as I thought about this passage I got to thinking about the most basic form of teaching:  parenting.  Parenting isn’t just about bringing a child into the world, it is about preparing them to be successful in the world.  Creating another human being is rooted in an understanding of science, but raising a child comes from the art of teaching them the lessons they need to know to help them grow physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
Are we willing to invest ourselves in teaching a child how to be faithful to God?  If not, should we consider bringing a child into this world?  This may seem rather harsh or even counter-intuitive, but before we take on the responsibility of parenting we’d better make sure we are dedicated to teaching them appropriately or we will have to answer to our Father in heaven.  (By the way, the same thoughts apply to those looking to foster or adopt children – are we willing to provide them with a safe and spiritual environment?)
If you are thinking about parenting, ask yourself if you are committed to raising your children with a proper spiritual and secular education.  The answer to this question will be a good standard to determine if you are ready to be a parent.
Think About It!

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