Monday; October 22


          We live in a very interesting time.  In years past, we had gotten into the  habit of avoiding the discussion of sensitive topics.  We had been good about burying our heads in the sand and were more apt than not to avoid discussing hard topics like race, inequity and abuse of power or privilege.  Today, it doesn’t seem like you can turn on a TV, open a website or flip through a book without some type of discussion of some very challenging issues.   While there is value in having open and candid debates, we must make sure that our exchanges remain productive and civil.  Sure, we can review what has happened in the past, but we must stay on the appropriate course for plotting a productive future.  We can be passionate about our points of views, but we must make sure that we respect each other as fellow citizens and fellow humans. 
          The bottom line to undertaking any meaningful discussion is the ability to be better at the end than we were in the beginning.  Divisive words, quarrelsome spirits and destructive agendas will make difficult times worse.  Solving problems can begin in a hostile setting, but adding fuel to past fires will not draw us closer together.  When the Bible addressed dealing with contentious disagreements it cautioned, “For you were called to freedom, brethren; only do not turn your freedom into an opportunity for the flesh, but through love serve one another. For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’   But if you bite and devour one another, take care that you are not consumed by one another.” (Galatians 5:13-15).
          Let’s do our best to be honest and transparent with each other, but let’s also remember to keep our eye on the prize.  The argument isn’t the goal, finding an answer is what we are seeking.
          Think About It!

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