Tuesday; August 22

Are we easily embarrassed? Now, on one hand, it is probably good to embarrass easy especially when it comes to issues of modesty and propriety. It is good to feel a twinge of embarrassment when we find ourselves in compromising situations. However, there is another type of embarrassment that is not so positive. Do we ever felt like other people are intentionally trying to embarrass us? Do we feel like people are putting us down in social situations to make us feel ashamed? While it can be easy to feel that way, the question is whether what they are doing is intentional or is the issue that our pride is just getting in the way of our good sense? What I have found is that, while there are some people who might set out to belittle us on purpose, if most people do something that is embarrassing to us, it is unintentional. So, if that is the case – and they aren’t trying to make us feel bad – why do we feel bad? Could it be that our ego is just too sensitive and we so proud that we wear our emotions too close to our hearts?

When we feel the sting of embarrassment and start to look around for someone to blame, let’s ask ourselves if the other person really meant to make us look bad or if we are just too hypersensitive for our own good. When we do feel like someone is belittling us, let’s be controlled enough to say something at that moment to make sure we are able to clear the air and move forward. When we address it with the best of intentions and a calm head, both of us can learn the truth and avoid bad feelings.

Think About It!

Popular posts from this blog

Thursday; May 3

I have a fish tank that allows my three Bettas (Larry, Darrell and Darrell) to live in the same structure, but remain hidden from each other – well sort of.   When I go to feed the fish, I believe that one of the Darrell’s can sort of see that the other Darrell is getting fed and he will linger over on that side of the tank even after I put his food in his tank.   I have to tap on the side of the tank where his food is floating to help him refocus and eat.   I get the impression that he is so interested in what is going on in the other Darrell’s tank that he can’t enjoy his own food. I have been told that the brain of a fish is pretty small – which explains their inability to process “blessings”, but are we guilty of the same malady as Darrell?   Are we so worried (or consumed) by what happens to the people around us that we fail to realize what is going on with us?   Are we envious of the blessings that others are receiving and end up missing out on what we have been given?   Are w
Read more

Thursday; February 14

         While most of us are familiar with today being Valentine’s Day, there are some who actually refer to February 14 th as “St. Valentine’s Day”.  This title is often affixed to a criminally historic event known as “The St. Valentine’s Day Massacre” on February 14, 1929 in Chicago, but that is another story for another time.  Not knowing much about the history of “Saint Valentine” I did a little research and found out he was a Roman religious leader who was martyred in 269 AD.  According to my limited research Valentine was killed because of his encouragement of Roman men (especially soldiers) to marry which was in violation of Claudias’ edict that prohibited marriage to keep their minds singularly focused on their task of defending the Empire.  Somehow, from this beginning – and possibly embellished by Chaucer – St. Valentine became intertwined with the concept of romantic love.           I am not really sure how February 14 th became connected with love, but inspired by thi
Read more

Wednesday; December 6

What does it mean to be a leader? I subscribe to the belief that a leader is someone who seeks the best for others and works with them to achieve their potential. There are others; however, who define leadership as the ability to have a vision and the tenacity to get their own way. Leaders who are this way are often portrayed as having developed the maturity to manipulate people to do things their way. However, is the ability to drive people in our direction mature or is it childish? The Christians of the 1st Century came from a lot of different backgrounds and had to work hard to work together. As the Apostle Paul challenged Christians in the city of Ephesus he challenged them to accept individual differences, “… until we all attain to the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to a mature man, to the measure of the stature which belongs to the fullness of Christ. “ (Ephesians 4:13). Bossiness was not to be viewed as a sign of maturity, a willingness to wo
Read more