Tuesday; August 22

Are we easily embarrassed? Now, on one hand, it is probably good to embarrass easy especially when it comes to issues of modesty and propriety. It is good to feel a twinge of embarrassment when we find ourselves in compromising situations. However, there is another type of embarrassment that is not so positive. Do we ever felt like other people are intentionally trying to embarrass us? Do we feel like people are putting us down in social situations to make us feel ashamed? While it can be easy to feel that way, the question is whether what they are doing is intentional or is the issue that our pride is just getting in the way of our good sense? What I have found is that, while there are some people who might set out to belittle us on purpose, if most people do something that is embarrassing to us, it is unintentional. So, if that is the case – and they aren’t trying to make us feel bad – why do we feel bad? Could it be that our ego is just too sensitive and we so proud that we wear our emotions too close to our hearts?

When we feel the sting of embarrassment and start to look around for someone to blame, let’s ask ourselves if the other person really meant to make us look bad or if we are just too hypersensitive for our own good. When we do feel like someone is belittling us, let’s be controlled enough to say something at that moment to make sure we are able to clear the air and move forward. When we address it with the best of intentions and a calm head, both of us can learn the truth and avoid bad feelings.

Think About It!

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