Friday; January 1

I realize that New Year’s Day is an artificial point designated on a community calendar, but I also believe there is value in celebrating new beginnings. Sure, there are a few actual changes that go into effect today but, in all reality, it is just this Friday that follows the last Thursday. However, I think it is good to emotionally clean the slate and start anew.

Again, while there is nothing really significant about January 1st, it has been traditionally viewed as a day for resolutions, and believe me, I probably need them more this year than ever before. So, here goes:

1. I will read more substantial materials and fewer current events. Whether they are self-help books, biographies or spiritual pick-me-ups I need to invest more time in being intellectually fed than merely being daily informed. I invested a lot of 2020 following the news, and in all reality, I didn’t change a whole lot of what happened. My best opportunity to develop my life is finding a deeper understanding of important issues, not in reviewing current opinions about what is going on in the day-to-day world.

2. I will enjoy more and stress less. I love to travel and experience new things. Unfortunately, it had gotten to the point that I was stressing about where to go and how to get there. I don’t plan on taking travel for granted anymore. When we get the all-clear, I have a list of things I want to do and am committed to enjoying the process from beginning to end.

3. I will spend quality time with people. It is easy to see interacting with people as a chore, but last year reminds us that it is not only a blessing, but it is also necessary for our emotional and social health. Whether it is in worship, in the aisles at the grocery store or across the back fence, I am looking forward to saying “hi” and seeing an unmasked smiling face.

How will your life change this year?

Think About It!

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