Monday; February 11


          It seems like one sure way to alienate just about everyone around you is to start a conversation about religion and/or politics.  If we begin to broach either one of these topics, some people will become animated in defending their point – but, most people will just quietly slink away into the shadows.  The sad thing is that these two topics can be interesting – and at least one of them is vital to our eternal existence. 
          So, if we would like to discuss religion and politics (and if we feel like we need to discuss them) how do we go about doing it?  Here are a few suggestions:
1.  If we want to talk about religion and politics, don’t start off talking about religion and politics.  Before we carry on a conversation about deeply held beliefs we may need to “practice” with each other on less divisive issues.  By building a rapport and trust on other subjects, we will be more apt to discuss controversial topics more amiably.
2.  If we want to talk about religion and politics, don’t only talk about religion and politics.  When our conversations become focused on a single topic, people will either grow skeptical or weary of us.  We might be consumed by religion and politics, but others are not.  Most people like to carry on conversations with will-rounded people on multiple levels.  When we vary our topics – and even choose topics that are important to others – when it is our turn to direct the conversation they might be willing to engage with us.
3.  If we want to talk about religion and politics, don’t just talk about religion and politics.  Communication in a two-way process.  We get an opportunity to express our ideas, but that comes with the responsibility to allow other people their turn to talk.  If we are constantly cutting people off or discrediting their opinions, they are apt to stop being interested in discussing things with us.  When we listen (and listen to learn) we build a foundation for having deeper discussions. 
Think About It!

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